Reasonable Faith


Peter 3:15 says that we are to be ready to give a defense of our faith. Are you ready? Sadly, many Christians watch more TV in a week than they spend in a year preparing themselves to answer questions about God and the Bible. Many people equate faith with a blind leap in the dark or wishful thinking, but the faith that the Bible requires is intelligent faith. It is neither blind nor irrational. Defending the faith isn’t just for your pastor, though. The church needs an army of saints who are able to articulate the truth persuasively and graciously.
Listed below are my best attempts to clear up uncertainties and address painfully honest questions that both Christians and skeptics have. My hope is that it equips you with strong enough reasoning and evidence to profess your faith and answer the question “Why should I believe in God?” 

If God is so loving, why does He allow evil and suffering?

Christianity teaches that contrary to Buddhism, suffering is real; contrary to karma, suffering is often unfair; but contrary to secularism, suffering is meaningful. There is a purpose to it, and if faced rightly, it can drive us like a nail deep into the love of God and into more stability and spiritual power than you can imagine. Non-believers assume that suffering should keep people from God, while many who suffer a great deal turn to God, not from him. The atheists’ solution doesn’t remove the suffering. In fact, it worsens it by removing hope. Rather than condemning God for allowing evil, we should be thankful that He withholds the punishment we deserve. God created the possibility of evil; people actualized that potentiality. The source of evil is not God’s power but mankind’s freedom. Even an all-powerful God could not have created a world in which people had genuine freedom and yet there was no potentiality for sin because our freedom includes the possibility of sin within its own meaning.

What about all the contradictions in the Bible?

How can you believe in a religion with impossible stories like Noah and the Flood?

I am glad there are things in the Bible I do not understand. If I could take that book up and read it as I would any other book, I might think I could write a book like that. It’s natural to be skeptical of a story like Noah. However, the greatest miracle in the Bible is not Noah and the flood. The greatest miracle in the Bible is recorded in the first verse: “In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.” If that miracle is true, then every miracle in the Bible is at least possible (including Noah’s Ark). If God created the universe, then He can do whatever He wants inside of it. Common sense is no match for the voice of God.

Does archaeology disprove the Bible?

Was Jesus just a moral teacher?

No spiritual teacher (e.g., Buddha, Mohammed, Gandhi, Martin Luther King, Jr.) has ever claimed to be God. Throughout the New Testament, Jesus claims to have always existed, to have authority to forgive sins, and he claims to be God. That leaves us with only two options: either Jesus is an evil deceiver or Jesus is who he says he is. He didn’t leave any other option open. During His time on earth, Jesus performed amazing miracles, that as John rightly observes, serve as signs that manifest his glory (John 2:11). He healed diseases, exorcised demons, turned water into wine, calmed storms, walked on water, and even raised people from the dead. After examining the claims, character, and miracles of Jesus throughout the Bible, it’d be foolish to write him off as simply a moral teacher.

If God created Heaven and earth then who created God?

What evidence do you have the Bible is trustworthy?

If I had to narrow it down to a few pieces of evidence, I would probably say: fulfilled prophecies, archaeological discoveries, and the Bible’s amazing unity. The Bible, unlike any other religious book, has demonstrated itself to be the Word of God through its ability to rightly predict the future. There are literally hundreds of very specific prophecies in the Bible that were spoken hundreds of years before their fulfillment that have already come to pass. No other religious book can verify itself in this way. The Bible has also been proven to be historically reliable by thousands of archaeological discoveries that have verified the names of persons, places, events, and customs mentioned in the Bible.

Finally, there is the Bible’s amazing unity. Here is a book that is actually a collection of sixty-six different books, written down by more than forty different authors, over a period of 1,500 plus years, on three different continents, in three different languages, and it addresses life’s most controversial topics from beginning to end. You would think there would be chaos, confusion, and contradictions, yet the Bible miraculously remains absolutely consistent and internally harmonious from beginning to end. These three pieces of evidence (fulfilled prophecy, archaeological discoveries, and the Bible’s amazing unity) build a compelling case for the divine origin and historical reliability of the Bible.

How is it that the Bible explains the earth to be 6,000 to 8,000 years old when we know that dinosaur bones are at least 65 million years old?

What about other religions?

It is no more narrow to claim that one religion is right than to claim that one way to think about all religions (namely that all are equal) is right. We are all exclusive in our beliefs about religion, but in different ways. Merely having an open mind is nothing; the object of opening the mind, as of opening the mouth, is to shut it again on something solid. When investigating Christianity vs. other religions, we see that Christianity is unique among the religions of the world for several reasons. First, unlike other religions, Christianity is rooted in history and evidence. Jesus of Nazareth was born in Bethlehem in Judea during the reign of Caesar Augustus and was put to death by Pontius Pilate, a first-century Roman Governor. The testimony of his life, death, and resurrection is not only validated by credible eyewitness testimony but by credible extra-biblical evidence as well. Furthermore, of all the great religious leaders of the world (Buddha, Moses, Zoroaster, Lao Tzu, Muhammad), only Jesus claimed to be God in human flesh.

Does evolution explain away Christianity?

Hasn’t the Bible undergone corruption as it was translated hundreds of times down through the centuries?

The Bible has been translated into hundreds of different languages down through the centuries, but the text of the Bible has been accurately preserved all the way through. How do we know that to be the case? First, there is the manuscript evidence. Today, there exists several thousand partial and complete, ancient handwritten manuscript copies of the Bible, some dating as far back as the third century B.C. These manuscripts have allowed textual critics and scholars to verify that the Bible we have today is the same Bible the early church had.

Secondly, there are the writings of the church fathers. By church fathers, I am referring to leaders in the early church. In their commentaries on the Bible, their letters to one another, and their letters to other churches, these men quoted the New Testament Scriptures alone more than 86,000 times. Their quotations have allowed scholars to reconstruct nearly the entire New Testament. These two forms of evidence, the manuscript evidence and the writings of the church fathers, verify conclusively that the original text of the Bible has been accurately preserved.

If God is omnipotent, why does he not just show himself to all of us, all at once, thereby ending this game of free will and temptation?

How can you prove that Jesus rose from the dead?

If Jesus rose from the dead, then you have to accept all that he said. If he didn’t rise from the dead, then why worry about any of what he said? The issue on which everything hangs is not whether or not you like his teaching but whether or not he rose from the dead. Here’s a quick list of the historical evidence of Jesus’s death on the cross:

  • A public execution assured His death
  • A high official secured the gravesite
  • In spite of guards, the grave was found empty
  • His apostles were dramatically changed
  • Witnesses were willing to die for their claims
  • Jewish believers changed their day of worship
  • Although it was unexpected, it was clearly predicted
  • It was a fitting climax to a miraculous life
  • The growth of the Christian church hereafter

Following His death on the cross, Jesus made numerous appearances to His followers. He comforted the mourners outside His tomb on Sunday morning. On the road to Emmaus, He explained things about Himself from the Old Testament. Later, He ate in their presence and invited them to touch His scars. Scripture records that Jesus was seen by more than 500 at one time. Some may argue that a few people could have agreed to a deception, but how can one explain the collaboration of 500 people?

Is God just?

Why should I care?

Christianity, if false, is of no importance, and, if true, of infinite importance. The one thing it cannot be is moderately important. This statement compels us to seriously embrace the fact that we’re saved by God’s grace through faith alone. That’s all God requires for salvation to be obtained. It is also important to note that our faith in God brings forth deep transformation into our lives. Faith allows us to condition and organize our lives in such a way that His will and purpose can be accomplished in us. Our faith in Him is the cornerstone that sustains us in times of need, trials, and hard sufferings. By having faith in God, we can certainly look way beyond life’s obstacles with a firm assurance that He’s with us and will always be with us no matter what happens.

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How to Find Fulfilling Work

This year I began my first full-time job with the #1 job site in the world. Needless to say, I’ve been thinking about jobs a lot lately. I’ve learned that the average person spends 90,000 hours at work over the span of their lifetime, and yet more than half of Americans feel unsatisfied and unfulfilled with the job they currently have. That’s because employer’s naturally seek out a bigger bottom-line while today’s generation of employees want a job that’s worth more than just a paycheck. Many of us want a job that is able to combine passion, mission, and profession all in one. The last thing we want is to end up driven by the kind of compulsive workaholism that mistakes making a living for having a life. So how do we find fulfilling work out of college, how do we create more fulfillment in the job we already have, and how do we know when it’s time to transition to a new job?

In my search for a fulfilling career, I came across three core elements that I believe every aspiring professional should look for in their job search, and those elements are meaning, flow and freedom. If you can find a job that allows you to affect meaningful change, a job that you can become unselfconsciously absorbed in, and a job that gives you freedom to pursue your dreams without reverting to work for work’s sake, then ultimately you will achieve fulfillment in your job. The greatest thing about these core elements is that they can be worked on and developed. Don’t think your work is meaningful enough? Then make it meaningful. Figure out how you can make the biggest charitable impact with the least amount of money and then set aside $50 a week towards that cause. Don’t think you can achieve flow at work? Clear away all distractions and focus on tasks that lie somewhere between boredom and anxiety. Don’t think your work gives you enough freedom? Offer to help out with tasks that demand more creativity in the office while seeking out life-enhancing projects outside the office.

The point of a job is not to achieve some tension-less state, but rather to strive and struggle for some goal worthy of your time. We need to go boldly where most personality tests fail to take us, and explore exactly what kinds of fulfillment we wish to seek in our careers. Everyone’s got different priorities and it’s important to take a meticulous look at your own. Figure out what your career drivers are and what motivates you to get out of bed every morning. Are you driven by money and recognition or by the thought of doing work that is interesting and engaging? Would you be willing to sacrifice a relaxed schedule with a well-known company in exchange for a job with a network of friends and great leaders? To find the perfect job for you, start by ranking the career drivers below from 1 to 6. Your top drivers will help you decide which companies to interview with and which offers to take. Keep in mind that your career drivers can change over time along with your circumstances, and if your career drivers are now opposite of that when you started, it might be time to find a new job that excites and motivates you the way a job should. No matter where you are in your career path, you must ultimately remember that there is no such thing as a perfect job, just jobs that are better suited for you. 


Once you know your career drivers it’s time to start searching for the right job for you.  

The Purpose of College

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I’ve spent the last four years of my life as a student of the University of Texas. So now that I’m graduating, what have I actually learned? Well the truth is, I could easily have condensed my ‘textbook education’ of facts and figures from the last 8 semesters into the span of 6 months. But the purpose of college is so much greater than what I was taught in the classroom. 

In my eyes, the overall purpose of college was not about understanding business principles and memorizing marketing terminology, it was about learning how to learn. It was about learning time management and learning how and what to prioritize. It was about learning who I was and what I stand for; about learning how to be in a relationship and not assuming I’ll get it right the first time around. It was about writing the first real chapter of my life, and it was about learning how to make it as interesting and meaningful as possible. It was a beautiful time of discovery and a time that I won’t get to repeat.

With all of that said, I do have advice for anyone willing to listen.

  • Dont’s:
    • The most important piece of advice that I have is not to leave your choice of friends up to fate. Choose wisely and carefully the people that you surround yourself with, and try to befriend someone from every grade.
    • Don’t ever ever let yourself be bored. The things you’ll regret after college are the things you didn’t do, so make time for new experiences. Seek out cool stories and memories!
    • Whatever you do, do not allow grades or salary to determine your value or worth. If you do find yourself tied up with grades or career development, know that prayer, not drugs and alcohol, is always the best way to relieve stress.
    • Every man wants to talk about what matters, but no one wants to start the conversation. Don’t be afraid to start the conversation.
    • Don’t take shortcuts. Learn the smartcuts instead.
    • Don’t shy away from non-fiction books just because you hate your textbook. Reading is the quickest way to accumulate several lifetime’s worth of knowledge in your short time here on earth.
    • Don’t ever say no to a road-trip.
  • Do’s:
    • Always go into public dressed like you are about to meet the love of your life.
    • Find something to be passionate about early on, and stick with it. It’s important to always have a personal project that you can work on outside of school.
    • Join an organized community that matters to you.
    • Be young and fun while you can. Cultivate a youthful spirit: one that never ceases to question, wonder, laugh, love, or get up on the table and sing.
    • The best way to balance your social life, university grades, spiritual life, and physical health is to combine them. Study with friends, listen to sermons while at the gym, join a missional community at church and cram for tests while going on a walk.
    • Step out of your comfort zone and improve yourself in some way every week. Daily goal-setting is the best way to stay accountable. 
    • I cannot stress enough the importance of writing things down and documenting. Pictures don’t capture everything.

Live A Great Story

“Sometimes you have to go out of your way to get into trouble–its called fun.” – Robin Williams (Good Morning Vietnam)

Societies have survived decades without math, but never has there been a society that didn’t tell stories. It seems crazy, but it makes sense because life doesn’t come to us like a math problem; it comes to us the way a story does, scene by scene. In fact, stories are the creative conversion of life itself into a more powerful and meaningful experience. They are the currency of human contact, and they are good medicine in times of trouble and adversity. It’s the reason why “fine” is just not a good enough answer when someone asks how your weekend or winter break was. Nobody wants to or even cares to remember the easy stories.

The more I thought about it, the more I realized that the point of life is the same as the point of a story, which is character transformation. If the character doesn’t change, the story hasn’t happened yet. It’s ridiculous how much of our lives are spent trying to avoid conflict; half of the commercials on television are selling us something that will make life easier. Part of me wonders if our stories aren’t being stolen by the easy life, because the truth is, great stories need a little disadvantage and discomfort. A person has to go on strange adventures to build up a list of stories. He has to jump off bridges and go for midnight swims, travel to new places and stand in empty deserts, engage in rambling conversations with strangers, and eventually allow himself to fall in love. The ambitions we have will become the stories we live, so if you want to know what a person’s story is about, just ask them what they want.

If you ask me, I want my life to be a testimony to the joy that can be found in spontaneous living. I want to live in a way that inspires people to find out who they are uniquely made to be and what they are uniquely designed to do. I want to live a great story with my life that leaves a beautiful feeling even as the credits roll. And that’s exactly why I created this blog and my travel website in the first place. When I look back on my life, I want to remember the crazy things I did, and all the times I worked harder to make a day stand out. I even started capturing each of my memories in a journal I call “Days to Remember” to make sure that I am filling my life with plenty of memorable scenes.

I find it interesting that in the book of Ecclesiastes, the only practical advice given about living a meaningful life is to find a job you like, enjoy your marriage, and obey God. It’s as though God is saying, “Write a good story; take somebody with you, and let me help.” I know that one day, I’ll tell all of my stories to God and I bet he’ll laugh. He’ll remind me of the parts I forgot, and then he’ll explain what it all means as we sit and remember my story together. We get one story, you and I, and one story alone. God has established the elements, the setting, the climax and the resolution, and all we need to do is fill in the story. In that case, it would be a crime not to venture out, now wouldn’t it?

20 Lessons in 20 Years

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Hey everyone, just left the coast of Portugal and I am currently posting from Paris, France! Since I just celebrated my 20th birthday earlier this month, I decided to compile a list of 20 important lessons that I have learned during my twenty years of life. They’re totally random, but I hope you find some of them to be useful!

  1. Extended travel can cost a pretty penny, but it’s well worth every cent.
  2. There are three things that make every tough decision easier: coffee for dealing with the things that you can change, wine for accepting the things that you can’t, and wisdom for deciphering between the two.
  3. Reading is one of the best ways we can come up with answers in the short time we have here.
  4. Journals and cameras are the only two weapons we are given to fight time. Not only do they capture special memories for us to revisit, but they preserve our smiles and emotions onto a page that never forgets.
  5. True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less.
  6. You can learn a lot about a person by the way they handle these three things: rainy days, heated arguments, and tangled Christmas tree lights.
  7. It is not how much we have that matters, but how much we enjoy.
  8. It’s important to never waste your wildness, because what is wild cannot be bought or sold, borrowed or copied; there is no app for that.
  9. Life is not just a matter of milestones, but also of moments. It’s not just about the birthdays, graduations, and professional achievements; it’s also about the lazy Sunday golf games, the dinner-table conversations, and the fits of laughter with friends.
  10. The most important time is now; the most important person is the one you are with; the most important act is making the person next to you happy.
  11. Stress does not come from engaging in stressful activities, its a result of forgetting to allow time for silence so that our minds can recharge.
  12. No matter what your age, there’s always something new to learn and and there’s always room for you to furnish your life and your mind with new knowledge and experiences.
  13. Substituting a good habit for a bad one is much more effective than just quitting a bad habit cold turkey.
  14. Not every day is going to offer us a chance to save someone’s life, but everyday offers us an opportunity to affect one.
  15. Fortune favors the bold, and sometimes all you need is 10 seconds of insane courage or 10 seconds of embarrassing vulnerability.
  16. There are three ingredients that will always guarantee an enjoyable evening: live music, great beer, and the company of best friends.
  17. What you do every day matters more than what you do once in a while.
  18. Faith means trusting in advance what will only make sense in reverse.
  19. Genuine love is unconditional rather than emotional. The person who truly loves has made a commitment to be loving whether or not the feeling of love is present.
  20. The key to a happier life is to simply enjoy the passing of time.

Go To The Edge (Travel Bucket List)


You may be comfortable where you are right now, comfortable with the people around you and the familiarity of your own city, but I cannot emphasize enough the importance of traveling. It should be on everyone’s bucket list. Whether it involves spending several days in another continent, backpacking in the country with friends, or just getting outside the city and going on a road trip with family, every adventure is worthwhile. When exploring new ground and trying new things, all other burdens seem to slip away, and a therapeutic contentment often follows as a result of a diminishing preoccupation with oneself. Do not be mistaken, I do not see traveling as a method for escaping life, but rather I see it as a method to ensure that life does not escape me. In my eyes, it has nothing to do with gear, the backpacking fads, or even with getting from point A to point B. No, the beauty is in the walking. Traveling is about the discovery of new cultures and ideas in foreign lands and about meeting new people everywhere you go. It’s about the feeling of letting go and doing things differently than ever before. It’s about jamming a stick in the spokes of your routine, and it’s about finding a place that feeds you—creatively, socially, spiritually, and (of course) literally. In a strange way, it’s a lot like falling in love, mostly because it provides a heightened state of awareness that is undimmed by familiarity and ready to be transformed. Without new experiences, something inside of us sleeps. So don’t waste your wildness, because it is precious and necessary. There is no app for that. What is wild cannot be bought or sold, borrowed or copied. There is so much to see, and not nearly enough time to witness it all, so travel wide and far, travel boldly, and travel with full abandon. Perhaps you dream of visiting seven continents or standing on top of a tall mountain. Narrow it down to a specific country or better yet a region or a city. Wherever it is that you dream of going, do not let price, language, or distance keep you from taking your first steps in that direction. Make a new path, travel the extra mile, go to the edge.


Travel Bucket List Ideas:

Visit one of the modern wonders of the world

Travel by camel

Touch sand and snow within one day of each other

Throw a dart at a map of your country and go to wherever it lands

Venture out on a safari

Get a picture in front of ten different state welcome signs

Camp out in a national park

Backpack across a continent and keep a travel journal

Take a week long road trip with friends

Drive out to the mountains for a mountain-biking trip

Get your motorcycle’s license and map out a roadtrip with another friend

Sign up for a mission trip in a third-world country

Photograph and document your travels through the rainforest


Rediscover What’s Important (God’s Bucket List)

Hey guys, sorry that I haven’t posted something in forever. Up to this point, all of my writing efforts have been going towards the book that I just finished writing for Quarto Publishing Company, and a lot of my time has been devoted towards planning the two month backpacking trip that I am about to embark on. Although I can’t release too much information about the book, I can tell you that it will be coming out in stores in January and it is right on track with the kind of stuff that I write in my blog right now. Here is a little excerpt that I wrote for the book, which unfortunately won’t be making it into the final copy:


The basic idea behind a bucket list is that our souls were meant to desire something greater. We all have greater yearnings and wants that are just out of reach, and I believe that we were created like this for a reason. I believe that we were meant to desire something greater simply because we are meant to be satisfied by something greater. What if we were designed to achieve a set of goals that could not be measured by any physical standards or by anyone else? What if there were an actual bucket list that God designed specifically for you? An agenda of adventures that He wants you to experience and a way of living that you were meant to live before you kick the proverbial bucket? You may imagine that submitting and seeking a life in God would be extremely limiting, totally unappealing, and would translate into becoming a cloistered nun, a missionary in Ethiopia, or something else contrary to the dreams you have already written down up to this point. In fact, I think a great deal of followers in the church believe that God put them on the earth to be a good boy or girl and nothing else. I guarantee you however, this is not the case. That’s why he devised the world in such a way that we are rewarded most when we embrace risk as the theme of our lives, which is to say, when we live by faith. God doesn’t expect us to be “successful”; only faithful. When God set man on the earth, he gave us an incredible mission—he gave us a charter to explore, build, conquer, and each care for different things in his creation. He gave us permission to live from the heart, and whether it’s building a boat and sailing it, writing a symphony and playing it, planting a field and caring for it—those are the things you were made to do because those are the desires that are most suitable for drawing us near to himself. So don’t suppress any of these desires that you may have, but embrace them. In the same breath, the key to this grand way of living life is to submit to God’s version of your deepest desires instead of insisting that He bless, approve, and put the final stamp on our version of things. God’s bucket list for you is unique, and if you’re trying to embrace His list, who better to talk to than God Himself. Through whatever goals he sets for you, know that the ultimate goal is for you to know Him more. Therefore, let your desires endure, let your passions persist, and make sure to live a life that is ultimately driven by eternity.



Desire is powerful. Not a symphony has been written, a mountain climbed, an injustice fought, or a love sustained apart from it. Desire is the trigger behind our deepest passions and it is the motivating factor that has caused me to chase after ridiculous and often dangerous goals. Although it has driven me to accomplish a number of items on my bucket list, I realize that desire has also been the framework for all of my failures and letdowns. In addition to causing heartache, desire is often the culprit for fueling immoral and sometimes illicit behavior. As a result, many of us play it safe by living far from our hearts, and we do so at the expense of our happiness. By disowning our desire and reducing it to a more manageable size, we sacrifice our hearts on the altar of “getting by” and in return, we are forced to settle for less than we deserve. What if that’s not how we were meant to live? What if I told you that we were made to desire?

Well, we are! Just as our lungs were made to breathe oxygen, our souls were designed to constantly seek and spar for meaning, intimacy, and adventure. In fact, not only were our souls designed to desire something greater, they were also designed to be satisfied by something greater. Jesus never said “the problem with you people is that you want too much. If you’d just learn to be happy with less, then we’d all get along just fine.” Quite the contrary. What he really said was that he wants to give us life to the full. You see, we were purposefully given a heart that desires deeply because he uses those desires to draw us to himself. The intimacy, romance, adventure, courage, purpose, and joy that you long for is only a glimpse of what you will get after your time is up. So don’t suppress any of these desires that you may have, but embrace them. Even if you tried, turning your back on the things that your heart longs for would be as futile as holding your breath for an extended period of time. Eventually you would find yourself gasping for air.

So will life ever be what I so deeply want it to be, in a way that cannot be lost? The simple answer: not yet. It’s a sobering truth, and yet it makes all the difference in the world because desire cannot live without hope. It puts my entire bucket list of goals into a different perspective, and yet still fills me with joy because I know that the life I prize is coming. The very thing that I am aching for now is exactly what will be given to me when I am finally called Home. I have to remind myself often that this life of desire is not a road headed toward completion, but a process and a journey followed by absolute and perfect satisfaction. Through this wonderful reminder, I am freed from feeling like a failure when things are not finished, and hopeful that they will be as my journey comes to an end. Therefore, let your desires endure, let your passions persist, and be bold with your aspirations. Life is not a problem to be solved, it is an adventure to be lived, and I can’t wait to drink deeply from that fountain of which I’ve only had a sip.



The Ties That Bind

The Ties That Bind


I’ve heard it been said that you get more of what you focus on in life. As I thought about that quote this summer, I made a point to distinguish the five most important things in my life and devote my summer towards them. Lucky for me, all five of them were right in my very home. Mom, Dad, Emily, Grant, and Katherine.

I can honestly say that I love my family more than life itself. I have found that my fondest memories were those spent with my parents and siblings, sitting under a tree for half of a day chatting to one another. Many people would probably call that wasting time, but in my eyes there has always been value to it. Believe me, I am well aware that maintaining family relationships are a tremendous challenge. When it comes to cooperation, my family has always been both my greatest strength as well as my greatest weakness. And as fate would have it, those are the people with whom I act the worst yet am loved the most. This is exactly what a family is about though, not just sharing the same genes and blood, but letting others know that I’m watching out for them. It’s about having a group of people who know me better than I know myself. Nothing else will give me that. Not money. Not fame. Not power. Despite years of arguments, picking-on, and attention-grabbing at the dinner table, I know that there will always be more than enough love, grace, and memories to last a lifetime.

I do admit that I found it incredibly tempting this summer to invest every extra hour of time or ounce of energy into whichever activity yielded the clearest evidence that I’d achieved something. But too many high-achievers focus a great deal on becoming the person they want to be at work—and far too little on the person they want to be at home. We cannot recycle or save the time allotted to us each day, and unfortunately not everything is worth the portion of our life we give to obtain it. We all want affirmation that our lives have meaning, and nothing gives a greater affirmation than the love and meaning that goes into a family. My bucket list accomplishments may give me a sense of confidence from time to time, but it’s the relationship I have with my parents and siblings for which I am most proud.

“When you talk of family life
Or how it used to be
Though many had more money
None were as rich as me.” -Jeanne D. Rhein